Nov
18

Worship Blog

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worship.jpg    I am proud to introduce and recommend the “Cornerstone Worship Blog” by our own Keith Ronan.  There are some great worship videos and great spirit filled articles.  Keith really shares his heart and I look forward to more from him on this blog….Check it out here….

Nov
18

Activate

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activate.jpg  As promised, I will do my review on “Activate“. I could write for a long time on this book.  Not only have I read the book, but I have listened to the 12 hour intensive workshop on this book.  I am actually taking a few people this Thursday to the “Activate Seminar” in Tampa.  What I love most about the book is the practical approach taken by the authors.  The book starts by shooting down 12 myths of small groups and gives the 12 key principles for successful small groups.  I will be explaining the 12 key principles on later posts.  They are as followed:

Part One: The Activate Mindset

* Rethinking Small Group Methodology
- Think Inside Out… Not Outside In
- Think Larger… Not Smaller
- Think Friendship… Not Intimacy
* Rethinking Small Group Structure
- Think Short-Term… Not Long-Term
- Think Promotion Months… Not Ongoing Sign-ups
- Think Church of small groups… Not with small groups
* Rethinking Small Group Strategy
- Think Easy… Not Hard
- Think Ahead… Not Behind
- Think Full Staff Participation… Not Staff Specialist
* Rethinking Small-Group Leadership
- Think Apprentice… Not Expert
- Think Decentralization… Not Staff Control
- Think Leader Multiplication… Not Group Multiplication

What I love about the book is that it is the BEST systematic approach to small groups that I have ever read.  I kept reading the book page after page thinking “That makes sense……When we were the most successful, we were following those principles.”  Or “Why didn’t I see that before…..How obvious and simple is that……”  What I mean about the systematic approach is they lay out the entire strategy around 4 things. (F’s) 

Part Two: The Activate System

1) Focus…..Here you figure out how many groups you need, what curriculum, number of leaders,, training dates and key dates, promotional time table and ideas, ect…..

2) Form….Here you confirm the Leaders, the curriculum they are doing, what night, location and time, ect…

3) Fill…..This is the month you fill up your groups.  Use easy entry points, promos, dramas, videos, sign ups, sermon support, ect…

4) Fascilitate…Here you make sure sign ups go smoothly, confirm group sizes, follow up on leaders, adjust according to needs, ect…..

This is the best way to make sure you have a smooth flowing system.  We are kicking off our new semester on Feb 8th of next year.  We are already on our “Focus” stage.  Next month will be our “Form” stage, and January will be our “Fill” stage.  We are continuing this process through the year to ensure the success of each semester.  Remember what Bill Donahue said at the Grouplife conference.  Without a structure, a successful 40 day campaign could turn into 40 weeks of chaos.  This plan ensures we follow through on every semester and always plan ahead!  Please follow my upcoming posts to fully understand the genius behind the “Activate” approach to small groups.  Needless to say, I HIGHLY recommend this book and suggest that ALL my leaders read this.  More to come…..

Nov
15

Small Group vs Big Group (Part 2)

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By popular demand, I have decided to post another “Parody” of the “Mac vs PC”. This one is actually my favorite. Let me know what you think…..If you are interested, you can view all four of them at Youtube. Just follow the links after the video.

This one is dedicated to Chief, Bro, and Dude!!!! I miss those guys!!!

Nov
13

Small Group vs Big Group

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I have really enjoyed the “Mac vs PC” commercials.  They seem to get better as they continue.  I have a “Parody” to show you on “Small Groups vs Big Groups”.  Let me know what you think….

Nov
13

The Holiday Season

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christmas-tree.jpg  Can you believe the Christmas Decorations are already going up?  The McGlinchey family usually waits until after Thanksgiving Day to begin putting up our Christmas Decorations.  Either way, the Holiday season is in full swing.  Children will soon be out of school, in-laws will be coming over, and many will be waiting in long lines for all the sales on Black Friday.  Usually with all of this activity, the small group decides to just take the month off.  For some, one month will become two and then three months and before you realize it, the group is dead and no longer meeting.  Instead of small groups taking a month off, why not do the Holidays a little bit different this year and ensure that your groups do not die due to lack of activity.  During this year’s Holiday Season, I would like to give all of our Small Groups a Holiday Challenge.  Here are some ideas to keep our Small Group’s Connected during this Holiday season:

·      Plan a Thanksgiving Dinner together (It doesn’t have to be on Thanksgiving Day, but plan a time for all of you to make your special family recipe and come together and share what you are thankful for this year.) Also, the “Wall Small Group” will be serving Thanksgiving dinner for those who find themselves struggling financially or have no family locally.  The event will be at 5:00pm Thanksgiving Day in the Common Ground.  Any help would be greatly appreciated.

·      Take a “Date Night” to see Christmas lights or attend the Holiday Parades.  (I really enjoy the Saint Cloud holiday parade.  The kids get LOTS of candy and it really puts you in the holiday spirit.  There are plenty of places to eat afterward and fun activities for all ages.  My daughter will be dancing there again this year.)

·      Serve together in the community.  (Look around your community for a service project that you could do together.  Many homeless shelters, food banks, and non-profit organizations are looking for holiday help.  You can also go to the children’s wing of hospitals and pass out presents or stuffed animals.You could also contact Pastor Chip to help with his homeless project every third Saturday of the month.)

·      Serve together during the holiday services at Cornerstone.  (Cornerstone will hold several services during the holidays and will need volunteers.  This is a wonderful opportunity to help your church serve the community. We always need help with Frontline (greeting) and Preschool.)

·      Have a Party!  (Have a Christmas party, plan a game night or go somewhere fun.)

·      Attend the Christmas Musical service together.  (This year’s musical will be called “All Bow Down”.  it will be December 13th (Saturday Night) and Dec 14th (During both Sunday service times)  This is also a great opprtunity to invite friends, family, and co-workers.

Here are some ideas for the Holidays, but maybe you as a Small Group Leader have some special things that you are planning on doing to challenge your Small Group to stay connected during the Holiday season.  Please share any other ideas that you or your Small Group have done in the past.

Nov
04

Vacation Part 2

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I have been enjoying my quiet time with God this week.  I have another devotional to share that God has really convicted me of.   Here it is:

Success without God

Then he said to Him, “If Your Presence does not go with us, do not bring us up from here.”
Ex 33:15

It is possible to experience success and yet be void of God’s presence. If success is what is important to you, you may be tempted to choose accomplishments over your relationship with God. God offered to send an angel with the Israelites as they entered the Promised Land to ensure their success in every venture. No army could withstand them. No city wall could stop them. The wealth of the land lay before them. Everything they had ever dreamed of appeared to be theirs for the taking. The only thing missing would be the presence of God. God said they were an obstinate people, and He would not go with them when their hearts were far from Him.

The Israelites’ experience reveals that victory and great accomplishments are not necessarily a sign of God’s presence. Do not assume that your good health, your profitable business, or the growth of your ministry is due to the presence of God. It may be that you have inadvertently chosen success over your walk with the Lord.

Moses wisely concluded that success, no matter how great, is not a substitute for fellowship with God. Moses knew how quickly worldly achievements could disappear. His security came from his relationship with God. Success in the world’s eyes is not a sign of God’s blessing. It may, in fact, indicate that you have chosen a substitute for intimate fellowship with God. Would you be satisfied to have success, power, and wealth, but not a relationship with God? Do you value God’s presence in your life more than the greatest achievements you could experience in the world?

I don’t want to be so successful that I miss what God truly has in store for me or Cornerstone.  Getting a fresh perspective this week has really helped.  True success is measured in doing God’s perfect will for my life.  I want God’s presence in all that I do.  How do you measure success?

Nov
04

Vacation

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I am on Vacation this week. I was reading from my daily devotional last week and felt impressed to take some time to seek God. I was really convicted when I read this. Here it is:

Fix Your Eyes on God
And Moses and Aaron gathered the assembly together before the rock; and he said to them, “Hear now, you rebels! Must we bring water for you out of this rock?”
Nu 20:10

It is easy to see why Moses became frustrated with the Hebrew people. They were so hard-hearted and weak in their faith that Moses lost his patience and became angry with them. Yet every time Moses shifted his focus away from God, it cost him. When he sought to help his people by taking matters into his own hands, he spent the next forty years herding sheep in the wilderness (Ex 2:11-15). This time his impetuous behavior cost him the opportunity to enter the Promised Land (Nu 20:12). In his frustration at the peoples’ irreverence, Moses committed the very same sin, blatantly disobeying God’s instructions. How did this happen? Moses allowed his attention to shift to the behavior of others rather than focusing on the activity of God.
This could happen to you as well. God has put people around you who need your ministry to them. You will never be able to properly help them, however, unless your primary focus is on God. If you concentrate on people, their weaknesses, their disobedience, their lack of faith, and their stubbornness will quickly frustrate you. You may, like Moses, commit the very sins you are condemning. If, however, your eyes are fixed on holy God, you will become more like Him — gracious, forgiving, long-suffering, and righteous. When a friend’s behavior disappoints you, go immediately to the Lord. Seek to discern what God is wanting to do in your friend’s life rather than concentrating on your friend’s sin. Then you will have the strength, wisdom, and patience you need to help your friend in the way God desires.

Are you feeling frustrated?  Check to see who’s got your attention. I need to refocus on God and get his perspective…So far, it has been a great time of seeking God and reflecting on HIs goodness and mercy! It’s amazing what a little time and prayer will do for your perspective!!

Oct
24

Star Wars Connection Groups

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I knew there was a reason why I have enjoyed the Star Wars movies.  This picture proves that the success of the Jedi was founded on ancient “Small Group” principles.  I have actual footage of one of their meetings that discuss their small group….Enjoy! and may the force (Faith) be with you!!!


Yoda Groups from Fusion Church on Vimeo.

Special thanks to Todd Rhoades for this great find. Check out his blog at http://www.mondaymorninginsight.com

Oct
20

Group Life Conference

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This is my last post from the “Group Life Conference ‘08“.  I saved the best for last.  I could write pages about this session.  I am going to show the entire video in January for our small group leader training.  There are so many nuggets and gems that any leader could use.  It was done in a simplistic approach.  Russ Robinson was the speaker.  He has wrote several books on small groups and has led small groups for over thirty years.  Here are just a few of the highlights:

How to thrive as a small group leader:

  • What is my job as a leader: Ask yourself what Jesus did, what Jesus promised, and what Jesus is doing.
  • The four H’s: Head (What do I want my group to know?) Heart (What do I want my group to feel?) Hands (What do I want my group to do?) Homework (What do I want my group to plan?) These are simple questions we should ask every week when we prepare for our group meeting.
  • Do everything you can to turn questions into discussions: Ask personal (introspective) and interactive (group-based) questions in your group.  There is a great exercise we will do in January with this.
  • Always look back: Ask yourself after every group meeting what worked well, what could be improved, what should be celebrated, and what needs follow up between meetings? Ask how did the meeting go? How did Jesus show up?
  • Make smart investments: Pour yourself into the ones that will make a difference.

There was a LOT more that was covered.  I hope this wets your appetite for the training session in January!

Oct
20

Miles McPherson

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Miles McPherson closed out “The Group Life Conference“.  He had a style all his own.  He was Nancy’s favorite speaker. Here are the highlights of this session:

  1. We have to redefine your evangelistic starting point- Ex 3:6-9, God responds to the cries of a broken world.  Once we cease to respond to the cries of people, we lose our purpose.
  2. Identify God’s response to the brokeness of your own life- What God experience can you share with your group?  We need to turn Basketball Christians into Football Christians. (I love that analogy.) Football players go at full impact and collide with their opponent at a fierce velocity.  They don’t complain of the pain.  They pick themselves up, get back in the huddle, and are ready for more punishment.  Basketball players get a liitle slap on the wrist and they are crying for a foul and a free shot at the foul line.
  3. Identify and love the brokeness in your church-(One of the many reasons we started the Stephen Ministry.)
  4. Identify and love the brokeness in your community- There are places we should go because they are crying out.
  5. Reestablished your evangelism priority- Keeping your story to yourself will kill your ministry and your small group.

Click here to watch the highlights of this session.